Fake it 'til you
Make it!
There's a term
called 'Fake It 'til You Make It." Everyone who starts a new job
does all they can to fit in quickly. The rationale of faking it
until you make it is, despite your inner doubts and the roadblocks
you may see ahead, you reach competency and your goals more quickly
if you act like you're already there.
Any new job brings
with it feelings of excitement, hope and, if we are honest, a bit of
apprehension. In everyone's career, there are times when we try to
advance, and hope that as we do, we won't fall flat on our face.
Sometimes, the first reaction people have when they are given a new
assignment is "I can't do that!" But then, as you consider the
opportunity, you have to fake it until you make it. Unless you are
an expert in everything, you will have no choice!
Take chances. Give
yourself opportunities to excel and rise to the occasion. Even
confidence can be faked once in a while! You can pull it off if you
do your homework and believe in yourself.
It's no crime to
fake it in the beginning. Every successful person gave themselves
the chance to pull it off, before they actually did.
Now, you need to
keep in mind what you can fake, and what you can't. Don't take on
something about which you know you do not have the skills or
knowledge. That would be called 'fake it until you break it!'
Faking it may sound like an endorsement of phoniness or pulling the
wool over other peoples' eyes. Not true. It's not about being
phony; instead, it is about trusting yourself enough to get your
bearings in an uncertain situation.
As a first-time
manager, you may sometimes feel "out of your league" when you
compare yourself with other leaders within your organization. Keep
in mind that the most senior executives in your company started out
as first-time managers at one time in their careers. By creating a
positive work environment and promoting open communication, you can
win the trust and respect of your team and become a very effective
leader!
Lead with Confidence,
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